The RDB is definitely NOT an AR despite the color. Black firearms are one of the last holdouts where people can be racist even if it's just a firearm (the other is with certain breeds of dogs regardless of their color). Do NOT tell your wife anyone suggested that. But I made a T shirt that had a black silhouette of an AR and the text, "Is it because I'm black?". The meaning was clear and I really think that's the case for lots of folks. But again, DO NOT suggest that to your wife if you value your marriage.
In the future, since she's not a shooter, flood the house with black rifles. She won't be able to tell one from the other and you'll be free to buy what you want and bring it home. I don't know and I'm not going to look into the following. But if KT makes a tactical peanut butter stocked version as they do with the Sub2k you might exchange what you bought for one of those. It gets rid of the blackness and would look less threatening. I don't get it, but others would see it as "not an AR". Or maybe get the black RDB ceracoated a different color scheme before bringing it home?
In the future, since she's not a shooter, flood the house with black rifles. She won't be able to tell one from the other and you'll be free to buy what you want and bring it home. I don't know and I'm not going to look into the following. But if KT makes a tactical peanut butter stocked version as they do with the Sub2k you might exchange what you bought for one of those. It gets rid of the blackness and would look less threatening. I don't get it, but others would see it as "not an AR". Or maybe get the black RDB ceracoated a different color scheme before bringing it home?